A ripple of recognition through volleyball
The Love Effect begins with how we treat one another. Through Compliments for Change, Dawn Weir is developing a volleyball initiative to teach meaningful recognition and connect players, leaders, staff and communities.
Notice the person behind the performance
When we notice the person behind the performance, we make room for appreciation, honest conversations and shared purpose. Dawn’s ambition is to help bring that everyday connection to professional volleyball in Southern Nevada, starting with an idea prepared for the Vegas Thrill.
The practice is simple: notice the action, explain why it mattered, and say it sincerely. A meaningful compliment doesn’t replace honest feedback or high standards. It sits beside them, so people know their effort is seen.
Three compliments you could hear on a volleyball court
“Great job” is kind, but it fades by the next rally. These name what the person did and why it mattered.
- Defense
You stayed in coverage and kept that blocked ball alive. You gave us another chance.
Coverage rarely makes the highlights. Saying it out loud proves someone was watching. - Communication
You called the assignment early and clearly, and everyone got organized.
It rewards the talking that keeps a team calm, so you hear more of it. - After an error
You stayed available after that error and called the next assignment.
It doesn’t pretend the error didn’t happen. It recognizes the reset.
A happy heart has a place in the game
Professional sport asks a lot of people. Alongside preparation, competition and demanding schedules, there should be room to feel appreciated, enjoy a moment of connection, and remember why you love the game.
A sincere compliment can make the heart happy: that feeling of being noticed, valued and supported. We can’t remove every pressure. We can practice recognizing the people carrying it. And no one has to look happy to belong.
“Happy heart” describes a feeling. It isn’t a medical claim, and it doesn’t replace healthcare, rest or recovery.

Dawn and the game she loves
Founder of The Love Effect and creator of Compliments for Change.
Dawn loves volleyball. The energy and sense of belonging around Nebraska volleyball inspired her to help grow that same connection in Southern Nevada, where she hopes “it’s a thrill to be here” can describe the everyday experience for players, staff and fans alike.
- Feel seen
- Build connections
- Learn
- Give
Start your own ripple
You don’t need a team to try this. At your next game, practice or workday, notice one specific contribution and tell the person what they did and why you appreciate it.
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Illustrations on this page are Compliments for Change concept art by Dawn Weir.